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On the one hand, I am the only one who considers "here" to be where I am. On the other hand, everyone does.

 Is all non-duality equivocation?

Don't try to steer the unconscious. Don't analyze it either.

Use Tilopa's 6 words of advice.

One can assume they are doing no harm, or they can know it.

Knowing it seems like Buddhist salvation.

I might as well assume that I'm not harming anyone unless shown otherwise.

And then, I'll assume I don't intend to harm anyone, unless shown otherwise.

Don't feel guilty about people's tantrums and crocodile tears.

You are almost definitely not causing their ignorance, and they are almost certainly happier than you anyway.

Wearing a wedding ring doesn't make women attracted to you. It just makes them trust you and doubt that you want them.

Don't betray that trust.

One is able to not suffer and still hurt others. Usually the saintliest people suffer a lot.

Not always, but usually.

The highest good is compassion, not happiness.

Why would it be considered automatic that there has to be both? That's pretty irrational.

Buddhas and Christs agree: How much you love others is the sign of how much you love yourself.

If if everyone is enlightened then no one is enlightened, then this argument reduces to absurdity.

1. everyone is enlightened 2. no one is enlightened 3. assume 1 and 2 4. 1 and 2 contradict RAA

The only reasonable goal is abandoning all suffering

Given the sorrow of life, the absurd goal of never despairing is all we have.