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Someone who only loves you when you're being false doesn't love the true you.

 Noncontradiction.

Everyone's story is hagiographical

 It's all hyperbole.

Before you renounce renunciation, first renounce.

My closure is the complete acceptance of an otherwise lack of closure.

I care.

 That was the catharsis.

Owning your own emotions prevents projection, and preventing projection prevents misery.

Codependents call people selfish a lot.

I'm sorry that I will always hurt you because I've been hurt.

 Hurt people will always hurt people... even if we become the best versions of ourselves.

The only way in which I'm not assertive is that I need feedback to make sure I'm doing it right.

God loves you whether you have your soul or not.

 He loves your soul, your soulless self, and your soulful self. Whatever's there.

Discovering nonself means realizing the closest thing to being authentic is moving beyond the self.

 It's not fully authentic though... because it's nonself.

The problem with seeking validation is that someone can invalidate you... because they're assholes.

You can crave validation, but just don't seek after it. That leaves you exposed to manipulation. 

The self is obscured, not lost.